I've decided to give up. I don't know what the fuck is going on, but my current config will have to do.
OK, so basically it's now been 5 fucking days where I've constantly tried and retried different settings to get prime stable on in-place large FFTs, and failed. This is not worth my time anymore, and since I believe it is because of the memory (or the Integrated Memory Controller on the i7 920 which would suck), I've bought a better 7-7-7-20 1600 Corsair XMS3 kit which I know is quality and will get me answers. I've had a shitty experience before with DDR OCZ Gold branded memory where again I had locking up / restarting / bsod problems while trying to run it at its rated speeds - and these problems went away by me buying Mushkin Redline (back in the day). I don't know if it's the combination of my mobo/mem, or if I just got a badly overclocking kit or what the fuck the problem is, but I'd like to try something else to be sure.
Basically, my cores are stable until like 3.8-3.9 ghz or so even at ~1.225 voltage. I've verified this by running prime small FFTs overnight already.
My uncore portion (the l3 cache/etc) of the CPU is also stable at 1.35 VTT - verified by dropping the memory multiplier and running prime in-place large FFTs overnight already at uncore 3200mhz.
Alright, now for the kicker. My memory checks out overnight on memtest86+ v4.0 (latest) at 1600mhz 8-8-8-24 1.65v (rated speed). However, with the VERY SAME settings, it makes the PC reset/freeze/bsod rather quickly at running prime95 in-place large FFTs. I've verified it is NOT the cpu vcore, because it's running at 2.6ghz.
The ONLY other thing which could be the culprit is the Uncore portion... but that is perfectly stable when the memory multiplier is dropped down to 2:6 (yielding 1200mhz DDR). The second I put the memory to 1600mhz or close to it, it fails Prime in-place large FFTs.
The second kicker: Prime blend runs fine overnight with the memory at 1600.
Basically, the whole experience makes me scream WHAT THE FUCK inside. The only guess that I have is that because of some memory incompatibility or voltage combination, the uncore and IMC on the i7 920 don't like running with each other at 1600/3200 and produce a freeze after ~15 mins or whatnot. I hope this is because of the memory, and something that the IMC doesn't like about it, or perhaps the voltage - which will be resolved when I get the Corsair XMS3 kit.
There are other people who have had problems running the OCZ Gold memory at its rated timings on my mobo, which makes me hope that different/better memory will make everything go away. I'll post when I get the thermal paste and the new kit.
P.S. My stable config is 200bclk/3200uncore(just for kicks and L1/2/3 cache speed, only need 2400 in reality)/1200mhz mem 8-8-8-24-88-12-6-6-6-32-1t (fuck my asshole).
Voltages are 1.35v vtt, 1.64v mem, 1.225v CPU, 1.88v CPU PLL,everything else stock. I'm just testing memory right now, and will most likely up the multiplier to 19x soon (it's at 13x right now to make sure vcore is stable for prime and any problems are only mem). It should be just fine at 3.8.
Hopefully this will be improved to 4.2ghz with a 21x multi (with the new thermal paste and possibly the corsair H50) and 1600mhz mem with tighter timings (with a better kit) which is what I wanted in the first place and thought my current components would deliver.
P.P.S. To top the shit off, I've run into some ABSOLUTELY RETARDED problem where the installer for visual c++ redist doesn't finish since yesterday, outlined here:
http://social.answers.microsoft.com...s/thread/f4dd5033-9bcb-4788-b100-5e98bd80f6bf
Currently, there is no solution really - and I'm glad I discovered this is happening early, so I can quickly reinstall win7. It would be SO FUCKING annoying to discover it later. BTW this means that every game which has an automated VC installer (such as the BC2 beta which I wanted to try on the new CPU yesterday) fails to install and cannot be played. Win7 reinstall shouldn't take too long, luckily, though.